As a single guy, looking for love, I am sure you have spent hours pondering what you should or should not do to have a better chance of winning over the girl of your dreams. Well the trick is to think like a girl, but that is often easier said than done! So for all you guys who are unsure, here is a list of things we girls do or dont like...
1) We love to be held and hugged from behind, this gives us the warm fuzzy feeling and makes us feel special. 2) Every girls dream is to have that first kiss be amazing, so make sure that your first kiss is a passionate one, with lots of feeling. 3) If you have been keen on a particular girl for a while and you know she is also interested in you, ask her for her phone number, if she likes you, she is dying for you to ask her. 4) Girls hate having to make the first move, so don't wait for them, take the initiative and get the ball rolloing yourself. 5) After a date, don't just drop her of outside her gate, walk her to her door, give her a firm lingering hug, look into her eyes and tell her how much you enjoyed spending the evening with her, lean forward and give her a passionate kiss on the lips, remember, she is waiting for you to make the first move. 6) Girls like the attantion, so call her on a regular basis, don't over do it though, when you are on the phone to her, eliminate those awkward moments of silence, never leave it up to her to do.  Dating SA Online Personals - The place to meet South Africans Online!
7) When she invites you to meet her parents, show them respect dont say anything sexual or nasty while in their company, remember that they will test you to see if you are good enough for their daughter. If you treat her parents with respect, she will get a gut feel that you are an even nicer person. 8) Try not to behave like a typical guy around her and fart and burp and do guylike things, girls find it disgusting, I know that everyone does it but girls find it uncool in a new budding relationship. 9) For your first date, take her somewhere quiet and romantic like a beach late at night where its just the two of you. girls find it very romantic 10) Hold her hand or put your arm around her whenever you can. 11) Hug her, kiss her passionately or even invite her out in front of your friends, a girl does not like being ignored around your friends, this is when you need to make her feel really special. 12) Be sincere, say what you mean and do as you say, don't over use the "I love you" phrase, some girls will think that you don't really mean it, if you over use it. 13) The first time that you tell her you love her, make sure it's special. make sure you are alone and try to tell her when she is a bit down or sad, we love it when guys comfort us, hold her, turn her towards you, hold her close, look deep into her eyes take your time, move your face towards her ear and hold her waist softly whispering, "I love you".  South African Singles Online - Click to find your real dreams!
14) Whisper sweat nothings in her ear, girls love that. 15) If you are gifted at something, tell her that what ever you do, you do it espaecially for her. 16) Resist the urge to show off most girls prefer the humble approach. 17) Remember to compliment her as often as possible, be sincere though. 18) Show her off to the world, this really makes girls feel special and appreciated. 19) When you are with other girls, make sure you treat her like she is way prettier and that you have absoulutly no interest in anyone else. 20) Don't talk about other girls to us, it makes us feel like we are being compared to them. Follow these simple rules and you will be well on your way to winning over the girl of your dreams! |