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The swinging lifestyle allows swinging couples and singles to be sexually liberated without fear and experience the most delightful erotic pleasures. Swinging allows both men and women to participate and experience recreational sex with others like never before.
The swinging community in South Africa is growing quickly and the the practise of recreational sex is gaining acceptance amounst the general public. Although swinging is not for everyone, it has its place in our society and is here to stay. Browse our swinging tips, learn what has worked for others in the swinging lifestyle and ensure that you have the knowledge to swing successfully. Our online swinging personals reviews will assist you in finding the right swinging site, all are free to join and browse. Read our swinging articles, discover how to break the ice and what to look for it a profile. Use the swinging couples and singles dating menu to the right to browse through our swinging specific information.
What is swinging - Is it for you?"The engagement in sexual activity with someone other than one's spouse or primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that spouse/primary partner" (Friend, Pearlmutter, McGinney 1989), and "recreational social-sexual sharing among consenting adults" (McGinney 1980). In practical terms, this translates into married couples, and couples in committed and casual relationships, engaging in social-sexual activity with other couples outside of their relationship. It is very different from cheating, however, because everyone involved are mutual participants, free of guilt, dishonesty and deceit. In other words, a couple in a relationship has openly discussed and agreed that such social-sexual interactions with others is ok. Swinging is a social activity. Whether attending a party, meeting with another couple privately, or engaging with a single person for a threesome, the participants talk with one another, eat, drink, and laugh, all with the purpose of becoming acquainted in order to sexually enjoy one another. Sexual activity may or may not follow, however. Many swingers have swinging friends they have known for month, even years, that they have not been sexually involved with. Private, clubs, and party houses offer a place to gather to swing. The environment is meant to be one of social warmth and belonging. It is pleasurable to meet new people, friends and acquaintances at a party. Pleasant memories come from lounging, perhaps partially dressed or nude, in a group around the fireplace; talking, listening to music, laughing and warming up to one another. This may happen in a hot tub, Jacuzzi or pool as well. When these social experiences are complimented by enjoyable sexual experience the appeal of swinging is understood. Though some couple who swing have open marriages and have swinging dates apart, the majority of couples do not date separately. They see swinging as an activity/lifestyle to enjoy together, as a part of their relationship.
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